Unless you can unequivocally say that for the thing you judge and shun another human being, and cause others to do same, that you have never done it in your past, present or plan to do it in the future, then continue the righteous journey.Yet even then, if you are that righteous, you should have more empathy and compassion for those still learning. Since no one qualifies, I daresay, we all abandon our high horses, let go our judgments of each other, which really are reflections of what we see in the mirror. Bearing a grudge is a deeper pathology than pouting or being justifiably angry, hurt, annoyed or sad for a brief period. There is a big difference. Check yourself if this is where you are. Why are you here?